The hardest part about becoming a freelance writer, or any kind of freelancer really, is telling the people close to you. Even though freelancing has become a booming field you can’t get past the traditional mindset that most people have. Conventional wisdom tells us that the only way to really be successful is to go to that four year school and find a safe 9 to 5 job.
So you might be frustrated if a loved one tells you that while your writing or designing is a cute little part-time thing, you really should be focusing on being a mature adult and getting a stable office job. And what do you say to that? They care for you and in a way they are correct. Freelancing is tough, and filled with rejection more often then not. Again, like I said in my last post, it’s important that you have a part-time job that can help bring in funds until you’re in a position where you don’t have to anymore.
I think the best way that I can answer this question is to be completely honest. There was a point, where my parents asked me this question. I had just quit my teaching job in Japan, and come home. I took some time off and decided that I would really focus on achieving my freelancing dreams. What really set off this train of thought? Well, not to get to personal, but a relative had lost their high paying job. They were completely downsized and at an age where companies are more interested in youth than experience. They received their severance package, and are still flummoxed about what to do. Looking at reapplying to the company and jobs like it.
It was then I set out to never be put in that position. I wanted to make a living doing something that I loved, but also something that put me in control of my life for the most part. I love to write, and the appeal of freelancing to me, is that I work for myself. I am responsible for my own success and my own failures. Yes, a frightening prospect, but one that I relish. What also motivated me was a close friend who also went into the business as an artist. She to struggled getting a company job, but decided to freelance. Once she did, she built her reputation and has carved out a living.
So what is the moral to this story? Well, that it’s important to stick to your guns. If this is what you truly want, then despite your loved ones reservations you should go for it. Keep your full-time job or get a part-time one to bring in money while you pitch or apply for jobs. It won’t be easy, but at the very least you’ll be forging your own destiny.